PLUS SIZE DATING: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT’S OVER?

It’s hard to admit, isn’t it? When the relationship that you were so sure of suddenly becomes the most unstable thing in your life. And as the strong woman that you are, you stand by your man as long as you can --- but how do you know when it’s really over?

#1 When you are the only one trying to make it work.

A relationship needs two people to function. If all the efforts are one sided (coming from just you), then you know it’s over. If a guy really wants you to be with him, he’s also going to do everything he can to make it work.

#2 When you did everything that you could, but obviously, your efforts are not “bringing it back on track”.

You’re a superwoman, definitely. You make money, take charge of your life and can run with the social wolves of your time, but you cannot deny the fact that there will be things that you cannot really do anything about.

Why it happens? Well it depends on one person to another. But one thing is for sure, you cannot control other people or situations, but you can definitely control yourself. And at this point, when you have done everything that you could to entice, love, care and save your partner, but your partner don’t want it --- then it’s time to put all that time to you.

And since relationships need 2 people in it… if the only one present is you… then you are not in a relationship anymore. You’re single again without the formal notice.

#3 When there are so many lies in the relationship that you cannot even decipher anymore which one is real or not.

Spare yourself some drama. Embrace some truth pills and become healthy all around. If you are in a relationship that has so many lies and secrets from each other then you are definitely not in a relationship anymore.

You’re in a soap opera. And those things? They need to be left on your TV sets.

You know it’s over when even you don’t know what’s real or not anymore. A relationship is supposed to make each of you stronger and clearer of what you want in life and not the opposite of it.

#4 When you say so

We can try to blind ourselves with some pretty lies and hopes. But at the end of every relationship --- there is only you and your partner. It's really over when one of them (even if it's just you) says so.

So make a choice --- is it really over?

Cheers!

Erzullie is a fierce plus size fashion designer brand from the Philippines dedicated to serving the style of the empowered Erzulliesta. Shop online: www.erzullie.com

PLUS SIZE EVENT: ERZULLIE'S THE FASHION FEAST (EVERYTHING PHP 300!) | 1 WEEK TO GO!

IT'S THE LAST FASHION FEAST!

As you know we are now moving to demi-couture (1-4 pieces per style only). With that, we are having our final "ERZULLIE THE FASHION FEAST EVENT (EVERYTHING PHP 300!)" on July 16, 2016, SATURDAY (12NN-6PM) at the Erzullie Showroom, Legrand II, Eastwood City, Quezon City. 

All transactions are cash basis only and REGISTER BELOW;



See you there, ladies!

Cheers!

Erzullie is a fierce plus size fashion designer brand from the Philippines dedicated to serving the style of the empowered Erzulliesta. Shop online: www.erzullie.com

PLUS SIZE FASHION: ERZULLIE PRE-HOLIDAY 2016 LOOK #4

Powerful and curvy. Two words that describe this dress perfectly. Guess what? Describes you too! Love this dress from the Erzullie Pre-Holiday 2016 collection. And if you are loving this, bet you that your man? #HELOVESIT too!

Be an Erzulliesta. Join an Erzullie event and buy this dress ASAP.



Cheers!

Erzullie is a fierce plus size fashion designer brand from the Philippines dedicated to serving the style of the empowered Erzulliesta. Shop online: www.erzullie.com

PLUS SIZE POWER: 3 MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT SELF-LOVE

Self-love is such a powerful thing. It can transform, not only your life, but others around you. After all, nothing is more contagious than a euphoria of happiness radiating from a person.

But why do people still shy away from it sometimes? Here are 3 misconceptions about self-love.

#1 Self-love means selfish.

It’s easy why this misconception can happen. After all, self-love is about loving, thinking and caring about yourself. It is about putting you first. And in a society wherein we are programmed to humiliate and lambast those who only think of themselves and praise those who constantly sacrifice their selves for others --- why wouldn’t we think this way?

But there is a difference between self-love and being selfish. Being selfish is about always being concerned on what you are going to get out of a person, object or situation. Being selfish is actually more of an act of “lack” rather than having it all. And as you know, self-love is about having it all. And what we mean by all --- is you!

Loving yourself is about knowing that you are whole and that anything that you get beyond you is just an additional and enriching experience in your life. So every time you reach out to someone, something or some situation, you feel grateful no matter what happens, rather than being concerned on whether or not this will feel a need.

Being in love with yourself is knowing that no matter what happens, whether or not you get something out of this person, object or situation --- you’re still going to be happy because you are whole and you have yourself.

#2 Self-love is being self-conceited. 

Being self-conceited is placing yourself laminated away from other people to the point that NO ONE ELSE IN THIS WORLD EXISTS but you. Only YOU have problems. Only YOU have issues. Only YOU have the achievements. So on and so forth.

Self-love is anything but that. If anything else, self-love actually helps you see more people.

What do we mean by that?

Loving yourself leads to positivity. And guess what? People love to hang around positive people! And even better! Positive people love to hang around even more positive people. Now imagine how that conversation goes. So exhilarating! Now isn’t that more sociable than being “just you?”

With self-love, you open your eyes not only to yourself but to others, while being self-conceited is putting a thousand mirrors only directed to yourself.

#3 Self-love starts by getting your “ideal” self

I constantly hear this from other people, “I will only love my self/life when I am at this point (insert conditions here)”.

Self-love only has one requirement and that is CHOICE. I, myself, was once just like that. But after more than 30 years was I only able to fully understand that all it takes is the choice to do it now. Because truth is, we can be our ideal selves and achieve it, but then again begs the question --- will we really like it?

I was that. I became what I wanted but still I felt so much hatred in my heart for me. After a lot of prodding, reflecting and finally a major breakdown --- I have realized that self-love really is a choice and it’s a choice that I can make right there and right now.

However, it is a choice that you really arrive in. So just be patient and work towards it, one day it will just happen to you!

So, what are you waiting for? Choose self-love today and see where it leads you.

Cheers!

Erzullie is a fierce plus size fashion designer brand from the Philippines dedicated to serving the style of the empowered Erzulliesta. Shop online: www.erzullie.com

PLUS SIZE MODEL: ERZULLIE OPEN SHOOT | REGISTER NOW! (AUGUST 2016)

BE A PLUS SIZE MODEL FOR A DAY! Learn how to model, update your portfolio and work with today’s best plus size fashion team!

Erzullie is holding an OPEN PLUS SIZE MODEL SHOOT on AUGUST 6, 2016, Saturday, 9am-4pm at the Erzullie Showroom, LeGrand II, Eastwood City, Quezon City. 

The shoot is open only for both amateur/professional Female Plus Size Models in the following size range: (You only need to have 1 out of the 3 required measurements to be able to join)

BUST: 40-47 inches | WAIST: 30-40 inches | HIPS: 40-50 inches | NO HEIGHT REQUIREMENT

5 SLOTS ONLY! REGISTRATION FEE OF PHP 2,500 GETS YOU THE FOLLOWING!

- 1 on 1 modeling coaching/session for 1 style set (Theme: Glam OOTD shoot)
- Get styled by professional hair, make-up and clothing artists
- Get your photos taken by a professional photographer (inclusive of solo 1 hour studio usage)
- 5 digitally edited photos (to be chosen by the photographer)
- Get featured in all of Erzullie’s social media accounts
- 1 Free Erzullie item
- 15 raw files upon request (Additional PHP 500. Indicate in the form below)

NOTE:  Terms and Conditions apply (to be emailed to those who will apply)

HOW TO JOIN: (DEADLINE OF REGISTRATION IS AUGUST 3, 2016, WEDNESDAY)

1) FILL UP THE FORM BELOW



2) WAIT FOR THE ERZULLIE EMAIL AND FOLLOW INSTRUCTIONS ON HOW TO CONFIRM YOUR SLOT. 

See you there, ladies!

Cheers!

Erzullie is a fierce plus size fashion designer brand from the Philippines dedicated to serving the style of the empowered Erzulliesta. Shop online: www.erzullie.com