PLUS SIZE POWER: ARE WE OVERREACTING ABOUT OUR BODY?

“I can’t wear that. My (insert body part here) is ugly.”

I have to admit, there are times when I am dressing up a client that comes up. Don’t get me wrong, even Erzulliestas have those days. I think all women do. And you know what I usually think after they say that?

“It’s ugly?”

Being me, I sometimes do blurt that out, but then I follow it up with this --- “You do know that other women have that kind of body part. Do you think they are ugly?”

Clients usually get startled and start to think of a small back track. Of course, they don’t think it that way. We actually all think that other women are always beautiful just the way they are, but how come when it comes to ourselves we think that we are the ugliest thing we have ever seen? Specially --- that body part?

The only reason that I can think of is that we are constantly bombarded by the suggestions of how it should be. And when we see that our body is not like that, then we start seeing the things that were never there.

Sad but true.

But I do propose a solution. We can’t really help being bombarded by all of these suggestions. It’s everywhere. However, just like the boat that you are, as long as you don’t allow the “water” (suggestions) to sink in, you are going to stay afloat.

So for short, it’s about being conscious of your thoughts. Spot yourself when you are about to think negatively about yourself. When you do, say, “Thank you thought, but now you have to go back to the sea of other thoughts. You can’t sink my boat today.”

Some will say that this is oversimplification. For me? It’s called a small step, and doing that small step numerous times will constitute to a journey. And hopefully, to a bigger solution to fully end it.
And just to aid it even more? Just remember. Other women may have it smaller or bigger than you. When you criticize it for being too big or small, just remember that you have just unknowingly insulted the rest of womanity. And definitely, as a woman who loves our part of the specie, you don’t want that.

Spread the body love. Starting with your own.

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PLUS SIZE POWER: 10 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE LOVING YOURSELF RIGHT NOW | PART I

Into the self-love game but don’t know how you are faring? Check out 10 top signs that you are loving yourself right now.

#1 You are dressing up more

Find yourself on a styling streak? Great news! It meanst hat youa re loving your body right now and adorning it like you should be. You go, girl!

#2 You have noticed that you have criticized yourself less lately

I would like to believe that we can fully eradicate that, but you can’t deny that at times you just have that habit one time or another. But hey! If you find yourself criticizing yourself less --- bravo!

#3 You have been identifying your achievements more

You don’t have to post it in social media. The important part is that you recognized it in you.
You ate a salad today? Good! You went 10 minutes on the treadmill? Perfect! You got out of bed today and went early for work? You’re a goddess!

Identifying your achievements, big or small, is a great sign of loving yourself.

#4 Less stress
Stress will definitely be part of your life, but if you find yourself taking more time of managing it to care for your body, then you know you are on the right track! Self-love is also about body care and being healing towards it is the way to go.

#5 You are happy, even when you are alone.

You know how to entertain yourself alone? That’s amazing! It means that you are getting to know yourself more. And getting to know yourself more means that you are loving what you are discovering about yourself. Trust us. You are loving yourself right now.

Erzullie is an invite-only fierce plus size fashion designer brand from the Philippines dedicated to serving the style of the empowered Erzulliesta. Shop online: www.erzullie.com

PLUS SIZE FASHION: ERZULLIE HOLIDAY 2016 LOOK #4

Power attracts power --- and that's why you only deserve your equal. May it be for love or style, never settle for less. And that's why for the time you meet your soulmate, this is the dress! Dress up for your love destiny and get this Erzullie Holiday 2016 dress by attending an Erzullie event. Sign up below and get an invite.

Trust us... this outfit? #HELOVESIT as much as you do.



Cheers!

Erzullie is an invite-only fierce plus size fashion designer brand from the Philippines dedicated to serving the style of the empowered Erzulliesta. Shop online: www.erzullie.com

PLUS SIZE POWER: 10 THINGS TO REFRESH YOURSELF (INSPIRATION WISE) | PART I

Stuck in a rut in the creativity/inspiration department? Feeling listless? Feeling worthless? Feeling like there is no reason in the world to continue? Maybe you just need some spirit refreshment. Here are 10 powerful “cocktails” to drink in.

#1 Take a shower.

It’s simple and direct to the point. I am talking about a good hot shower to ease your muscles or a cold one to invigorate you from head to toe. A change in temperature will change your body’s mood in a flash!

#2 Change scenarios

Maybe you feel ugly because you see all the ugly things around you. Take your favorite bag, put on your fiercest Erzullie outfit and go out. See something beautiful. Watch a movie. Try a new restaurant. Have a coffee. Just change your scene. It will definitely shift your views and spirit.

#3 Practice breathing for 3 minutes (at least)

Be aware of your breathing for at least 3 minutes. But Aries! I got things to do!
Guess what? It’s still going to be there after 3 minutes. So take the 3 minutes and run with it to refresh yourself.

#4 Talk to a friend (a positive one at that)

Ask about their day. Laugh a little. Sometimes looking at other people’s situations can actually refresh our views about our own. So go ahead and chat with a positive person. It will rejuvenate you

#5 Watch something funny.

Cartoons or movies --- it doesn’t matter. Just find that one movie that always make you laugh. Laughter will definitely change your spirit and your perception about your current situation.

PART II NEXT WEEK

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PLUS SIZE FASHION: THIN VS. THICK BELTS --- WHICH ONE TO GO FOR?

Belts are an Erzulliesta’s best friend (aside from her other Erzulliesta sisters). In fact, I can even go on to say that any woman should be able to master this accessory. It’s no longer just about keeping our pants up. It’s also now used to create some amazing visual illusions to the body. But which one should we go for? Thin or thick?

First off, I want to acknowledge that there is also a “medium” sized belt. The one between the thin or thick. These would be the ones that is already as thick as your thumb in terms of height. Anything below that or higher than that is no longer regular. So around 2 inches would be the measurement.

This type of belt is actually great for actual function of keeping any bottoms up as usually this is the size of the “belt holders” in the bottoms. So if you are looking for some functionality, pick this one. Thin ones are too flimsy and thick ones just won’t fit.

Next, Thin belts! Anything beneath 2 inches is already considered as a thin belt. If you are looking for instant definition of your north and southern borders, then go for the thin belt.

The great thing about this little number is that you can actually “pile them on” to create a whole new look. Think of them as bangles but for your waist. You can even connect them from one end to another to give you that edgy rustic look as you wrap it around your body.

Place the belt at your natural waist line (the smallest part of your torso). If you can’t find it, chances are you are wearing the wrong bra, as it is not providing you the proper lift. Get one that lifts your twins up to stretch your torso and finally reveal to you your long lost (and sometimes ignored) waist line.

Finally, THICK BELTS. Anything beyond 2 inches is already considered as a thick belt. If you are looking for support and torso elongation, then this should be your baby. Thick belts usually have a garter option (at least that is the current trend). Choose one that gives you great support for your belly and reveals the curvature of your waistline, emphasizing your breasts and hips. Instant hour glass figure!

Now, a tip about these belts. When the closure is at the back, chances are it provides more support to the tummy. If the closure is at the front, the flap may bulk up in front and thus, not provide as much support.

Erzullie is an invite-only fierce plus size fashion designer brand from the Philippines dedicated to serving the style of the empowered Erzulliesta. Get invited: www.erzullie.com